tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3006454596735505373.post9051162659347887932..comments2023-10-29T05:29:04.132-05:00Comments on Unwritten: What's My Status?Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13620286246484408761noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3006454596735505373.post-4066687502731040762009-03-05T20:28:00.000-06:002009-03-05T20:28:00.000-06:00So sorry. :(So sorry. :(Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09319187009235224171noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3006454596735505373.post-21572970710591019132009-03-03T11:58:00.000-06:002009-03-03T11:58:00.000-06:00I too am proud of you for making those tough decis...I too am proud of you for making those tough decisions. I sorry that you have to make them... but know that you are doing what is right for you and your son. YOU ARE... don't doubt yourself.kbreintshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08813489889625737678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3006454596735505373.post-89335767319201034842009-03-02T14:19:00.000-06:002009-03-02T14:19:00.000-06:00I need a button similar to that one : )I need a button similar to that one : )Meghannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3006454596735505373.post-19540191141380023812009-03-02T13:52:00.000-06:002009-03-02T13:52:00.000-06:00Heather, I am here if you need me & I am very ...Heather, I am here if you need me & I am very proud of you. I will contiue to lift you up in prayer & I am only a phone call away.Danettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11173295712241859613noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3006454596735505373.post-17861800682250250972009-03-02T10:58:00.000-06:002009-03-02T10:58:00.000-06:00I'm glad for you and Zack, though I know it...I'm glad for you and Zack, though I know it's really scary. It sounds like it's the best thing for you two.Erinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04077459860855798660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3006454596735505373.post-52297756426363882362009-03-02T10:29:00.000-06:002009-03-02T10:29:00.000-06:00I can only speak from my personal experience but t...I can only speak from my personal experience but the relief will only grow with each passing day.<br><br>As hard as it is, you have done the right thing.<br><br>We all have choices in our lives. You have made one that puts your son first. Jake made one that put himself first. It is because he is an addict.<br><br>He will be skilled at manipulating your emotions. It helps to visualize when negotiating with an addict that they have a big "D" on their forehead. They are not bad people but they have a Disease. A Disease that you want to avoid like the plague. A big old "D" on their forehead!<br><br>You will have moments of doubt. Moments when you think, "Was it really as bad as this?"<br><br>What I told people when it happened in my life was, "Yeah. This is hard. And just imagine how bad it must have REALLY been for me to have made this decision".<br><br>The other thing I found that made it easier because it is SO hard to say words like "divorce" or "separated" or "moved out" is that I would tell people, "We aren't together anymore." People know what you mean and it just feels a little less hard to say.Jennifernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3006454596735505373.post-31085678093323005292009-03-01T22:28:00.000-06:002009-03-01T22:28:00.000-06:00Oh Heather, I am so sorry. But I am proud of you f...Oh Heather, I am so sorry. But I am proud of you for sticking to your guns. I knew you could do it. This will either open his eyes or you will realize what you need to do. I hope that he will figure things out. You and Zack will be in my prayersLaurenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04980384759546166201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3006454596735505373.post-62879669738153953192009-02-28T17:24:00.000-06:002009-02-28T17:24:00.000-06:00Whoops - that last comment was from me (not my hub...Whoops - that last comment was from me (not my hubbie mike LOL)Creative Genius?http://www.blogger.com/profile/11864125028811212684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3006454596735505373.post-13131184331211281542009-02-28T17:23:00.000-06:002009-02-28T17:23:00.000-06:00Good for you!!! For sticking to your guns and doin...Good for you!!! For sticking to your guns and doing what you feel is right! I am proud of you (and praying this all works out in the end for you and Zack!)<br><br>:-) ALMikehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13313754238558487409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3006454596735505373.post-19141439423881643552009-02-28T16:19:00.000-06:002009-02-28T16:19:00.000-06:00Sending you hugs and lots of strength. I'm sor...Sending you hugs and lots of strength. I'm sorry things are rough right now.Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08306817679561629773noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3006454596735505373.post-67594477855750849222009-02-28T10:24:00.000-06:002009-02-28T10:24:00.000-06:00*hugs*Holler if you need to talk. I'm around. ...*hugs*<br><br>Holler if you need to talk. I'm around. And I'm sorry.Aunt Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12146687582842259611noreply@blogger.com