I am a horrible listener and even worse remember. I'm not sure if this makes me a horrible friend or just a person who needs to pay the F^%$ attention.
My friends tell me things they've done, places they are going, etc. I'll be damned if I can remember that when it actually happens. I have one friend who will remember that 3 weeks ago I told her I was getting my hair cut at 8:00 on Saturday morning and then she might even call and see if I need her to watch Zack.
Me... yeah not so much. She could tell me on Thursday night that she is going out of town on Friday and without fail I will call Friday night and ask her what she's up to.
I feel bad about this, I really do but I do NOT remember these things. I have a hard enough time remembering my own schedule that's why I keep it in a planner.
So if you tell me you are doing something and I call you and act all oblivious, it's not an act, I'm really that oblivious.
Abandoned
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I didn't mean for this space to go dark... but it sort of has. The new blog
is up and running and that feels like my new home. I'm not sure what will
becom...
14 years ago
3 comments:
Yeah... me too... I am not good at remembering the details of my own life let alone other peoples!
I share your affliction! A good friend of mine who is the type who remembers what you said you were doing gets annoyed when I am oblivious to what she told me about her schedule the day before. I think I will send her your posting :-0
At the same time, I am also someone who more intuitively picks up on others emotions, things that bring them joy, etc. - I just can't keep track of their schedules!
*nods head*
What was I saying?
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